DirtyD is on point with the picture! As far as the wife goes, just throw some springs on there and if she says anything, Huh, I don't know sweetie the suspension must have settled in
This all depends on your backspacing. Some wheels allow you to run a larger tire, while others don't. I personally always try to fit the biggest tire I can on my wheels. I'd run 275/35's up front and 305/35's in the rear. My "old car" will show you how well it looked lol.